Ya'at'eeh Children, Families, and Friends,
I got into this field and have been in healthcare/home health care/and home care for over 10 years, been on all sides of this field (the caregiver, the family member, and the leader). I know of the many years I have observed, learned, seen, and experienced, it is a challenge to make the "right" and logical decision(s). Having moral concerns, worrying all the time, the stress, and feeling helpless, because for your Elders and Loved Ones well-being. No one can do everything at the same time; all the time; sometimes we live far; we do not have the opportunity; we have families; we work; etc.
I know for a fact, our/your Elders/Loved Ones are able to remain as independent as they are able, rather than needing to turn over basic tasks to living assisted facilities and nursing home professionals. In-Home Care is often less expensive than care out of the home (Living Assisted/Nursing Homes, etc.). You can obtain THE BEST CARE you can for our/your Elders/Loved Ones. Children, Family, and Friends contribute to the care for your Elders and Loved Ones.